This is what attempted rape can look like.
Learned from this post by rm, a friend of the woman who let us know what almost happened to her. rm wrote
If you live in New York City, don't go to The Ding Dong Lounge on 106th and Columbus. I've been going there for a few years, and I've friends who have been going there forever, but then one of their bartenders tried to rape my friend and then somehow thought the whole thing could be smoothed over by buying her partner a drink. Yeah, not so much.